'Be better, not bitter.' is what I always say. The right man will always think you're enough and worthy of affection and loyalty . Any guy who treats you otherwise, obviously does not deserve you. Kesyo , you have to be like this and that just so he'll stay with you. Or worse, he constantly does things that upset you. If you've gone far enough to leave such a guy, then congratulations! Consider yourself freed! Haha. But break-ups can be devastating . It's easy to get caught up in what's in front of us and miss the bigger picture. We all have our ways on how we get over this dark and difficult phase. And it's easy to go down the graceless route especially if it's from a toxic relationship. But I tell you, there are better ways to get over a break-up! 1. Cry until you couldn't cry anymore. You might be thinking, ummm, how is this 'graceful'? Well, you should allow yourself to grieve . After all, you still spent so much time